Fear Taught Me the Best Lesson; Failure Made it the Most Memorable
Inle Lake Myanmar Boats Sunset

Bagan, Myanmar. February 1, 2017

I struggle to type due to the limited mobility of my left arm. This should contribute brevity to what I am about to say.

This trip is about getting out my comfort zone, which I’ve accomplished in both large and small ways.

A handful of my latest adventures: Riding a bicycle for the first time in 17 years.  Meeting and hanging out with strangers (without booze even!).  Hiking a gorgeous island mountain. Kayaking the Thai sea with a new friend. 

But riding a motorbike was not on the list.

It seemed too dangerous, especially for someone just getting reacquainted with a regular old bicycle.  Yet, if you want to see pagodas in Bagan, renting an e-bike is the only way to get around.  More . . .

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Koh Yao Noi and reflections on the last day of work
Koh Yao Noi Beach, Thailand, Thai islands, limestome cliffs
Koh Yao Noi, hammock, thailand, laptop, digital nomad, location indie
This hammock/laptop situation sold me on Digital Nomadism.

1/18/2017

I’m posting these entries a bit out of order but the significance is minimal.

Koh Yao Noi

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Lounging in a hammock in Koh Yao Noi, Thailand is surreal, yet feels quite natural. Gorgeous palm fronds sway in the breeze just a few feet from my bungalow.  Deep cerulean water and forested limestone cliffs scream with quiet beauty in the distance. More . . .

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3 Wrong Ways to Support Your Tribe (Plus The Right Way)
island, beach, travel, lipe, tribe

Today, poolside in Ao Nang, Thailand, I opened a thoughtful email from an old friend. It got me thinking about one of the goals of this trip– to figure out my tribe.

My working definition of a tribe is a group of people who share like-minded personal aspirations. These people ACTIVELY support your growth, and you support theirs.

Not all friends and family are automatic members of your tribe. This is because of the key term ‘active’ as it relates to support.

Active vs Passive, Constructive vs Deconstructive

To explain active support, let’s borrow the concept of Active Constructive Responding conceived by psychologist Shelly Gable. More . . .

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Koh Lipe and all its beachy pleasures: Solo travel
sunset solo travel
beach, white sand
Paradise. Koh Adang, Thailand 2017

1/9/2016 — with edits.

It’s my first full day in Koh Lipe. It’s brilliant here. Turquoise water, clear to the depths. Ivory sand, soft to the underfoot. And no crazy party scene; just a handful of fun little bars to choose from after 11 pm.

Confession: I had to rip myself from swiping on Tinder to write this post.

Solo Travel Tip: Tinder morphs into a friend-meeting app while traveling!

Of course, you can still use it for casual sex if that’s what you are into I suppose, but it’s a handy way to meet buddies for trekking, drinking, or just to grab a bite. More . . .

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